conversation...perfection

reshma says:
all women are smart...
reshma says:
ok im lying through my teeth, but you understand
jon sent 05/08/2008 1:14 AM:
all? ya right, haha
jon sent 05/08/2008 1:14 AM:
paris hilton?
reshma says:
ok! i can name more women/girls that are stupid rather than smart..but guys should THINK that all women are smart
reshma says:
thats how women get "hand"...
jon says:
haha
jon says:
perhaps
jon says:
if someone gets HAND, then the relationship is no good
reshma says:
for the guy anyway
reshma says:
women dont really mind either way i think, depends on the guy
jon says:
for the guy?
reshma says:
the relationship would be no good
reshma says:
every guy wants control..unless maybe you're a masochist..
jon sent 05/08/2008 1:23 AM:
noo
jon sent 05/08/2008 1:24 AM:
only unmarried guys waant control, haha
reshma says:
thats true, and im impressed that you can say that with such validity, lol
jon says:
well i know many relationships that fial and many that succeed
jon says:
fail*
reshma says:
yeah, so do i..lived em, lol
reshma says:
so the trick is to relinquish control until you're married..then take it away
jon says:
haha theres no trick
jon says:
you've lived them
jon says:
?
reshma says:
haha, maybe the failed
reshma says:
JOKING..
jon says:
haha well its sad but true
jon says:
what defines a successful one?
jon says:
10 yrs together?
reshma says:
no i dont think thats successful..i think its a conundrum..because, as sad and completely hopeless as it sounds, every relationship is not just "one answer"..so maybe every relationship isn't fully successful
reshma says:
but thats a very "half empty" answer
reshma says:
id rather think that most relationships are perfect in their own way, but sometimes it becomes hard to see their perfection...then you can't be successful